Hawaiian Etiquette and Customs : When in rome....

Do refer to other islands as "Neighbor islands".

Pupu is a starchy dish that is an aquired taste, do take the time to try it if offered. Be aware that pupu is traditionally eaten and served with one's hands, but that is unlikely to be enforced on a visitor.

You will see signs that read "Kapu", which is used the same way as "No Trespassing".

Never take rocks or sand home. It is considered bad luck at best and cursed at worse!

When visiting a Hawaiian home, it is good manners to bring a small gift. If coming for dinner, a dish is often the best choice. Potluck and communal dining is a traditional Hawaiian celebration.

Don't approach the geese. Don't go near any seals. Don't go near any sea turtles. It is illegal to do so.

You may find plates of foods or decorated objects of various kinds left in odd places. Don't touch them, they are offerings and are sacred. I have sacred things too (flag, cross, the ashes of a loved one....)

Do use both "aloha" for hello and goodbye, do use "mahalo" for thank you. You will not be expected to master Hawaiian.

If you need to use a Hawaiian word that you find difficult, and are willing to make an attempt in a conversation, take it seriously.

Take your shoes off when entering a home.

Making the shaka sign is fine, it means hang loose.

Don't use your horn unless you are saying hello or it is an emergency.

You will find stacks or rocks, don't be tempted to make any yourself. Huge fines and jail time, which is ridiculous, but there you are.

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